So I’ve come to the conclusion that Best Friend Guy (BFG) bears no ill-intent in calling me and wanting to hang out. I’m relying on my instincts and decent judgment of character on this one. Even if his boy (my ex) is over me and engaged [God forbid!], gives him the green light to holler at a Sista, I just don’t think that’s BFG’s steez. The only grime I truly suspect is the smudge of insecurity in my own game.
Oddly enough, Best Friend Guy will be rolling with me when I come to town for a hip hop show in a few weeks. If he tries to pull a fast one I'll be ready, pistol cocked...
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Alright. If you say so. Good move. I tell you what though. I've got a scenario for you. I think that when women say they sex so good, that brothers can't handle it and they'll call all the time and stalk, etc. is while to a degree true, blown out of proportion based on female ego. What I mean is that its a whole lot easier to call on someone with whom you have good and ever evolving sexual chemistry on a fairly consistent basis than it is to reinvest that energy into finding another like that if you haven't already done so or are a little too busy with life. A man may be having good sex with a woman yet as far as other women around him one could lack being adventurous, another could be a good person but high mainetance, still another female he knows makes it clear that she wants pregnancy at all costs. Therefore his sexual partner is the go-to-girl. It's moreso I think the fact that THE NEED IS MET. If the same or higher level of sexual communication/intimacy is established elsewhere, then she is not the only option. Not to sound cold and mechanical because I'm not. Respond when you wish. Peace. Anonymous Detroit.
I totally agree Detroit...so what you sayin? BFG is trying to establish a connection with me bec I'm fine AND drama-free? :) Enlighten me.
Well (not that you aren't fine) I actually meant that subject as part of perhaps a seperate topic you could address. His motives, if any, like I said I don't know. Drama free c'mon now. We all have SOME challenge we have to conquer. Some (perhaps like you) keep it to a minimum though. LOL. Anonymous Detroit.
yo she is fine. -Trev
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